...it's really weird how Kang's only been dealing with relationship stuff for three to four years, yet he has an amazingly healthy one with Fonrar and he can give really good advice (albeit pretty bluntly :|).
Draconians just don't...
complicate shit like humans tend to do. If they have a problem, they hash it out frankly and privately (and often violently, but that's just how they roll :D;). They don't expect their partner to cater to their every whim; in fact, that's viewed as a weakness. Any gifts that are given are thoughtful, but practical at the same time (headcanon says that Kang got Fonrar a very good dagger once, because hers was kind of crappy and she'd bitched about it before). They realize that spending time with each other and talking (and LISTENING) is important, and that relationships
do take work to be maintained.
And, I completely agree with it, except for the violence bit
although I'm sure the rough make-up sex is amazing. I really think it's part of why I like these guys so much.
IDK, I just... issues shouldn't be left to fester, and people should have a damn spine, but still be able to compromise, you know? Meet halfway, don't make yourself miserable to make someone else happy. And really, I'd be just as happy with somebody giving me kitchen stuff or furniture I need as I would a shiny piece of jewelry. It's the thought that's important.
What brought this realization about? A
secret and a
meme. I love 'Hide and Ratch to death, but they really need to get called on their stupidity by someone soon in-game, for everyone else in the city's sanity. As for the meme, I wanted to contribute, but I honestly couldn't think of any relationship problems Kang would be having that he wouldn't take care of himself, so I went with him asking something he's always wanted to know about the weirdness of humans and elves. :|
In non-RP related news! I have a nifty pair of harem pants on the way, and I hurt in muscles I didn't even know I have today. I'd planned on playing a little bit of DDR, but ended up practicing a few belly dance moves while cooking instead. I didn't feel like dragging the mat out.
ALSO, MARCH 14TH IS PI DAY. I AM GOING TO BAKE A PIE IN CELEBRATION, POSSIBLY STARTING TO MIX IT AT 3:14 PM TO BE EXTRA GEEKY.
Go ahead and laugh at me. 8|
OLD SPICE GUY ON ELLEN OMG.